Indifference Is Kryptonite
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Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. That’s why I stayed so long. You were an enemy and my soul knew it. I wanted to keep you near to me because I was more afraid of what you would do from a distance. Your insecurities and insatiable need to self-protect compelled you to hover, […]
Sometimes Support and Kindness Show Up When You Least Expect It
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We all want that support and kindness that we truly deserve, and sometimes it comes from people that you least expect it from.
How Did I Allow This to Happen?
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When I listen to the recordings that I made during this torture, it makes me so incredibly sick. How did I allow this to happen?
What’s Mine Is Mine And What’s Yours Is Mine
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I realize that this is just one of the many micro-managing control tactics that I was allowing him to do, but it’s a total mind-F because you doubt yourself.
If I Was Sick, I Was Completely Useless
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It could be a headache or a cold – all things that inhibit your ability to fully cater to his or her needs. This causes the abuser to suffer a “narcissistic injury.”
A Comfortable Hell
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I am really no different from anyone with respect to choosing hell over happy. I’ve been doing it for most of my life. The difference is that I am beginning to connect the dots, to see the roadblocks and how to bring them down.