Does Control Really Reduce Anxiety?
What does it really mean to control people or situation and does control really reduce anxiety? For me, I learned that it does not.
Our Wounds Follow Us on Vacation
Paradise is no longer on the outside because our wounds aren’t going away when we’re on a beach – yes, our wounds follow us on vacation.
How Do You Feel About You?
Things are so different today, and I’m not talking only about me, things are way different for everyone. Time is moving so fast and situations are condensed. Nothing is dragged out for years anymore.
Tradeoffs Are Expensive
Continuing to push your desires under the rug will not last, you will inevitably be forced to live them. The choice is ALWAYS yours, but tradeoffs will get more expensive as time goes on.
The Tale of the Bully and the Betrayer: The Perfect Match
It’s never-ending, but it’s no longer Sov’s circus. So, best wishes to the bully and the betrayer – there was never a more perfect match.
Change Is for Other People
Opportunities to do what you NEVER thought you could do – make those tough changes that only “other” people are strong enough to make.
Where Is Your Skinny Cow?
In a hurry, the man runs to get his skinny cow and heads to the village to sell it, it’s all he had.
If No One Is Around To Receive It, Is It Still Abuse?
I’ve been so mad at myself over this particular situation because I had such an opportunity to stop abuse in its tracks – but I didn’t.
Indifference Is Kryptonite
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. That’s why I stayed so long. You were an enemy and my soul knew it. I wanted to keep you near to me because I was more afraid of what you would do from a distance. Your insecurities and insatiable need to self-protect compelled you to hover, […]
How I Learned To Accept Intrusion As Normal
If you search the word “intrusion” in the dictionary, it comes up with similar words like “trespass,” “encroachment,” and “invasion.” Those words also hit home for me.